tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041939403819293169.post1563789355258536080..comments2019-02-12T08:52:59.665-06:00Comments on Casual Blasphemies: Taking it personally.Janehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14250563280900875907noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041939403819293169.post-32524591285876816412009-08-12T20:25:53.126-05:002009-08-12T20:25:53.126-05:00"Another TIPPster was quite aggrieved that I ..."Another TIPPster was quite aggrieved that I “refused” to “get healthy” and wouldn’t praise hir endlessly for hir “hard work” when zie embarked on a liquid diet."<br /><br />But but....it's a "STRUGGLE"! <br /><br />I know I know, going to hell and all that. <br /><br />I wish there was a STFU button I could push when people speak to me like that.Jennifer Howellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15401812297490150098noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041939403819293169.post-69934592158151713942009-08-11T08:20:07.700-05:002009-08-11T08:20:07.700-05:00I think I may be in love with you. Is that going t...I think I may be in love with you. Is that going to be a problem?<br /><br />And I think your gut-response to Tattoo TIPPster was the right one. I used to get that when I had a lip ring. It gets super-old super-fast.ANEisingerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08510415967262401109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041939403819293169.post-72196097096450952922009-08-10T20:29:54.244-05:002009-08-10T20:29:54.244-05:00OMG thank you so much for this. At a thread I run...OMG thank you so much for this. At a thread I run on a large forum I had the perfect example of a TiPP that just would NOT go away today. It got so bad I had to ban her. This made me laugh after some stress and I hope you don't mind that I linked it as several of my thread regulars were upset by today's TiPP and could use a laugh. Thank you!MigiziNse-ikwehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10096526211377597403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041939403819293169.post-57485120493242402012009-08-10T20:14:34.078-05:002009-08-10T20:14:34.078-05:00Well, taking it personally about being judged for ...Well, taking it personally about being judged for our size is waaaaaay different than the behavior exhibited by TIPPs. Of course it's appropriate and normal to get pissed and take it personally when the message day in, day out is "YOU SUCK". Anger is good. You should be angry - we all should be angry.Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14250563280900875907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4041939403819293169.post-5746706851947858222009-08-10T20:10:55.229-05:002009-08-10T20:10:55.229-05:00But...HOW do you not take it personally when peopl...But...HOW do you not take it personally when people judge you? <br /><br />I'm so tired of being judged for the way I look and having to defend myself for being who I am. <br /><br />Tired...and ANGRY.<br /><br />I wish I could write on my blog about it but it will just be a more expanded version of my real life, where some people say "oh, who cares how you look, you're healthy" (If I were black I think that would be like calling me articulate...but I'm not sure...)and others tell me I must be deficient in some weird mineral because, "How can you eat so little but still be so big?" <br /><br />It's called an eating disorder, where you eat enough to get calories but not enough to let your body know it's not starving, kthxbai. That plus genetics, anyway. <br /><br />But...it shouldn't MATTER *why* I'm fat - I shouldn't get a PASS as some rare albino exception because I'm fat and healthy...<br /><br />Gah. See, I freak out. LOL Totally taking it personally.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com